really feel this from Impro "I forgot that inspiration isn't intellectual, that you don't have to be perfect. In the end I was reluctant to attempt anything for fear of failure, and my first thoughts never seemed good enough. Everything had to be corrected and brought into line"
love his framework around offers too - everything an improviser says or does is an offer and other actors can either block or accept it. this can apply to so much of social interaction - people implicitly make offers all the time and you can choose to go deeper, or block