Wake up, grow up, & clean up (taking longer than anticipated) to reduce force-fitting outdated paradigms and past based responses on present situations. I can now make better decisions based on the past, present, and desired future moment by moment.https://twitter.com/LifeMathMoney/status/1172765393737269250 …
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Replying to @RyanGady
Yess! Only responsibly choosing a different behavior will do the job because we don’t have “benefits” data for this cost benefit analysis. We have an unknown for new behavior, so it requires courage and an understanding that the current pathological behavior is not working.
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Me too! The way I see it is data. The more data I have on the new choice having a higher ROI, the less compelling and hold the old choice will have. It seems to be a learning process.
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Replying to @RyanGady
Yes! I was an internal auditor, so I focused on managing risk in organizations, business processes, and supporting systems, through the lens of accounting and the enterprises' objectives.
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Yes the way I see it is that our emotional and rational selves are constantly debating and making calculated decisions re:risk and payoffs.
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Replying to @yulitmiller @RyanGady
You're making the hypothalamus blush. We like to think it's a very sophisticated negotiation protocol, but really our hormones often just override rational beliefs.
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I've had frustrating internal power struggles all my life. The work has been integrating all sides. With reactive emotional responses, awareness & equanimity allow for responsibility, which is easier said than done. I do see that decisions are driven by cost benefit analysis.
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For example, automatic emotional responses are usually based on some sort of pre-calculation for survival or replication. But when doing the work of consciously seeing the impact of that behavior vs. the reward of a new & rational one, then I can actually be free of its grip.
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