it's really touching to see that a bunch of my friends in this corner of twitter want to respond compassionately to a person that revealed the depths of their troubles (accidentally) through an online interaction that turned bad.
I have tried to avoid commenting because I am cautious about indulging my own ingroup/outgroup preferences/eagerness to condemn under a false cloak of charity and compassion. Not saying others are doing this, it is something I see in myself.