I move to new issues once one has become unproductive but that's an interesting strategy for issues that start unproductive.
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Replying to @sebmarkbage @thejameskyle
I've been able to turn it around more than a few times. Hm.
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Replying to @wycats @sebmarkbage
it's pretty much never worth turning around, just get rid of the bad parts otherwise everyone turns negative
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hm that has not been my experience at all -- sometimes people are frustrated and need empathy but lash out
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Replying to @wycats @sebmarkbage
I don't have empathy for those who lash out at contributors, and I'm not going to validate their behavior
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Replying to @jamiebuilds @thejameskyle and
There are other conversational options besides "lashing out", even (perhaps especially) when disagreeing.
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people disagreeing is fine, it's the comments that serve no purpose other than being an asshole to contribs
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Replying to @jamiebuilds @thejameskyle and
I just try to figure out whether it's coming from a place of feeling disempowered.
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Replying to @wycats @thejameskyle and
yeah but spending time and attention on people who act like that can be reinforcing
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Replying to @sarah_edo @thejameskyle and
it can be, but in my experience, need not be. the goal is to get them back to norms.
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if they don't make progress, I have no disagreement with anything on this thread.
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Replying to @wycats @thejameskyle and
everyone deals with this stuff differently. thanks for letting me divebomb into your thread
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Replying to @sarah_edo @thejameskyle and
no problem at all, and I have no judgment abt how ppl deal with it :) just saying my piece
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