Strong contender for greatest day-to-day cause of reality distortion: mind projection/typical mind fallacy stuff. The intuition is that intimacy/closeness is about understanding another person, but maybe it’s more about turning off the social auto-smoothing & embracing confusion
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I think it's important to recognize that our social inattention is functional: it lets us hedge against rejection, allocate attention to safety/acceptance cues, fluidly ignore blunders/save face, etc. But wouldn't it be nice to reach through the buffer a *little* more often?
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Lovely. Thanks for sharing.
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Folks are often quite uncomfortable when you do it, focus all your attention on them that is.
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