monogamy is no better or worse than polyamory
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Replying to @0x49fa98 @Aella_Girl
just like your cope that puritanism will ever be cool :P she's wrong but so are you
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Replying to @sonyasupposedly @Aella_Girl
Oh I did not see that she was replying to you, I thought she was endorsing the above, not counter-signaling it. Mea culpa
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I think, knowing Aella, that she is endorsing the statement in her tweet. But yes technically she should have worded it differently considering what she was responding to.
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no i think monogamy is flat-out worse (or rather; a coping mechanism based on unresolved insecurity) than polyamory
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Replying to @Aella_Girl @EyeOfRa42 and
u want a modicum of commitment trying to raise a family and stay financially solvent for the next several decades of your life. must be insecure, bro!
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Replying to @kwamurai @EyeOfRa42 and
idk i view having kids as like 'starting a company' - you agree with someone to commit to working on an external project. And this just requires both people give enough attention to prioritizing kids, it doesn't mean you have to forbid extrarelationship interactions.
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Replying to @Aella_Girl @kwamurai and
If your partner impregnates another person, your children will likely be financially impacted for the rest of their lives, and that child will be denied the attention of two parents. This isn't an edge case, it happens all the time
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Replying to @webdevMason @Aella_Girl and
This should be a shrinking problem though, right? (thanks to current birth control and forthcoming invisible male birth control)
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Current birth control is more than adequate for someone who is conscientious and *really* wants to avoid pregnancy. But not everyone is conscientious and not everyone really wants to avoid pregnancy
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Replying to @webdevMason @cjflog and
A lot of women actually want their partners to leave their marriages/commitments or at least divert more of their attention. A lot of women are comfortable with being "lazy," if not outright sabotaging their own BC
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Replying to @webdevMason @cjflog and
In a monogamous scenario, I only have to put my trust in the one individual with whom I've chosen to ostensibly share my entire life. In a poly scenario, I have to put my trust in *everyone* he sleeps with.
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