Mason  🏃‍♂️ ✂️

I can imagine plenty of cases where the latter is "worse" on my terms than the former, the former "worse" than the latter, and neither/both worth the time. Rather than go neurotic over it, I do what I want to do within semi-reasonable bounds for health, safety & sustainability.

Yes, you're right. The problem parents face is how to keep their kids within those bounds. To maintain that it will just happen comes with a burden of proof, I think. But it sounds like we're in rough agreement on that

Parents regularly fail to keep their children within those bounds while excluding nearly all of their options for pursuing enjoyment. Case in point: the sheer number who literally give their prepubescent children amphetamines because a school administrator said they ought to.

The reality is that *most* of the constraints children operate under have little or nothing to do with their health and safety. They reflect parents working very hard to fulfill social expectations and guide their children down a path that made sense approx one generation ago.

Hewing to the past is a fair criticism. But pity us: it's always hard to see what parts of the present will make the best future. As with any evolutionary family tree, there are many dead ends

It's *impossible* for anyone to predict the future in which their kids will operate The entire point of the thread I linked below the original tweet is that this begs us to have some humility

I entirely agree about humility. But I still think we can do better than "we cannot know". About the other thread: yes yes let's not strangle our Zuckerbergs but (a) most kids aren't Zuckerberg and they still need an education and (b) even Zuck didn't have Twitter

Here's what I can tell you: my intelligent, well-meaning parents fucked up. Badly. I'm not Zuckerberg, but I'm certain that school cognitively stunted me. I've met more interesting people, received more opportunity & been offered more jobs via twitter than any other tool I use.