You don't get a chapel full of ducks by interrogating your desires y'all
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At this point, it genuinely seems like there's an all-fronts war on the viscerality of attraction itself, like "you love who you love" lapped itself and got confused. Now our feelings are to be "interrogated," lest our lack of desire be "toxic." https://twitter.com/HeatherEHeying/status/1231991123838566400 …pic.twitter.com/cFVQyKeujq
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IMO it's never been easier to develop a personal magnetism; exercise a degree of discernment, speak and act in alignment with yourself, don't apologize if you're not sorry and especially not for what you want for yourself; self-trained neurotics around you melt despite themselves
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The saddest thing in the world is that nobody remotely stable even *wants* to be with the girl who thinks she has to brainwash herself into being "into it." The entire enterprise of losing touch with what you like only serves other people who can't or don't want to give it to you
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They’re always finding new ways to hate themselves.
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Observing the source of your own desires isn't bad by itself, as long as it comes from a place of open mindedness and gentle curiosity. This lady, however, sounds like she had the answer in her head before she even had the question, so the desire is considered illegitimate.
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Masculinity is like airline tickets. Everyone’s stated preference is that they hate flying in coach seats, but their purchasing behavior shows they just buy the cheapest flights.
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What you prefer often takes second place to something that is more easily obtainable. I much prefer the better seats if I can, but economy means I can actually take the trip.
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I hear your point, but I think she deserves credit for her self-awareness that she shouldn't be blaming men for being how they are (i.e. "toxic", by her definition) when this is what she and her cohorts want.
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The appropriate next step in her awareness is not to discard her own desires and attractions, but rather to acknowledge that what it is she desires in a man is not actually something bad.
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