For whatever it's worth, you have my permission to accept it as a given that you're a perfectly fine human being, and to avoid self-referential thoughts as much as possible. If you can manage it, you'll probably find yourself getting a lot more done and feeling quite a bit better
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You also may make better choices, because "this is a thing I'd like to do/make" is a better reason for doing stuff than "this will provide evidence that I am good enough." I've met many people stuck doing variations of the latter, feeling unmotivated, tired & still insufficient
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Feeling good about yourself often *follows* the doing stuff, and it's really upsetting to see people put the cart in front of the horse and then blame themselves for traveling at very low speeds
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agreed, I'd even say that "deserving" is kind of a fake idea when it comes to object-level reality like deserving is an abstraction that's sometimes useful, but what you can actually *do* is a billion times more important idk if I'm phrasing this sensibly
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Makes sense to me
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I think similar thoughts when it comes to relationships. Do I *deserve* to be with my partner? No, and that's ok. No one does. So, why not me?
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