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    1. Mason  🏃‍♂️ ✂️‏ @webdevMason 5 Oct 2019
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      I swear to god I'm not going trad, but the more I think about it the dumber it seems to encourage young people to do some serial monogamy before partnering up — like people whose only practice is in explicitly disposable relationships would be any better at the real deal

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    2. Mason  🏃‍♂️ ✂️‏ @webdevMason 5 Oct 2019
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      Anecdotally, the #1 problem I see in high-caliber dating circles is a toxic tendency to wonder if one's current partner is the "best" they "can do." Shitty people retort that this is wrong because people should "settle," but that's just the flipside of the same bad pattern

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    3. Mason  🏃‍♂️ ✂️‏ @webdevMason 5 Oct 2019
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      I can tell you this with pretty high confidence: if "is this person the best I can do?" is a recurring thought after more than a couple months of serious dating, you're probably better off leaving now. There will never be a way to get your answer, and the question is poisonous

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    4. Mason  🏃‍♂️ ✂️‏ @webdevMason 5 Oct 2019
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      Mason  🏃‍♂️ ✂️ Retweeted Centrally Unplanned

      Part of the problem is that people don't know what do with each other. They're not supposed to be "codependent," whatever that means, and kids are no longer a given; a lot of couples just don't really know their *why,* beyond abating the lonelinesshttps://twitter.com/centralunplan/status/1180683888059965441?s=21 …

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      This is obv "condensing complexity into a tweet" here, but I see a ton of "its all about compatibility", with an undercurrent of you having minimal agency in it, is about making your traits etc line up.
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    5. Mason  🏃‍♂️ ✂️‏ @webdevMason 5 Oct 2019
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      It's actually a hard problem to figure out what to do with each other if you've got two entirely independent career paths, no interest in building the same thing or compatible things, no desire for kids, etc. Which is why I think "codependence" is a bad meme, especially now

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      Mason  🏃‍♂️ ✂️‏ @webdevMason 5 Oct 2019
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      If it seems like the cultural climate encourages more entanglements with a serious business partner than a serious romantic partner, that seems... pretty problematic. But if relationships are more about consumption than production, it's hard to make the case against optionality

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        1. Curt Peters  🌐‏ @CurtPetersWG02 6 Oct 2019
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          All of these problems are the result of a consumption-focused society/economy. It is no surprise that folks have internalized the ethos into their most intimate relationships. Until this changes at scale, there is no way out.

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        1. the hardest working man in metaphysics‏ @chrismezzz 6 Oct 2019
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          Asking "is this person the best I can do" is like asking "is this the best seed to plant in my garden?" How TF are you supposed to know what seed will make the "best" plant? Try and define "best you can do" and you've already lost. Not just in love but in life.

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        2. siggy‏ @sbilstein 6 Oct 2019
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          It seems weird to frame things around settling, i advise friends to think "does this person help me be the best version of myself? Does our union achieve that for both of us? Does it free my mind from dating so I can do x,y,z?"

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        3. siggy‏ @sbilstein 6 Oct 2019
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          I've met enough ambitious couples who don't plan on kids at all who view relationships this way. Like you said, if you keep questioning it, probably better to move on.

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        1. RLangford‏ @RLangford18 6 Oct 2019
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          None of these existential relationship questions arise onhttp://christianmingle.com 

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