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I can tell you this with pretty high confidence: if "is this person the best I can do?" is a recurring thought after more than a couple months of serious dating, you're probably better off leaving now. There will never be a way to get your answer, and the question is poisonous
Part of the problem is that people don't know what do with each other. They're not supposed to be "codependent," whatever that means, and kids are no longer a given; a lot of couples just don't really know their *why,* beyond abating the lonelinesshttps://twitter.com/centralunplan/status/1180683888059965441?s=21 …
It's actually a hard problem to figure out what to do with each other if you've got two entirely independent career paths, no interest in building the same thing or compatible things, no desire for kids, etc. Which is why I think "codependence" is a bad meme, especially now
If it seems like the cultural climate encourages more entanglements with a serious business partner than a serious romantic partner, that seems... pretty problematic. But if relationships are more about consumption than production, it's hard to make the case against optionality
The framework of seeing a partner as having a market value gives the game away: if what someone is looking for is a combination of sex and social status, then what goes on between partners is almost irrelevant; what matters is when you’re sweating, and when you’re being seen.
It’s not about what you do with each other, it’s about what you do for each other. It’s about putting someone’s needs above your own, it’s about giving and sacrifice.
If you aren't codependent then you haven't formed a relationship.
My partner & I are best friends, help & care for each other, like many of the same things, & enjoy separate things too. It’s easier & per se more fulfilling than my past relationships, which helped me figure out that this is what I want. Plenty of “why” & “what do we do?” for me.
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