Trust me on this one: if you're looking for anything serious at all, you do not want to date a woman who needs to think you're always on the cusp of leaving. https://twitter.com/BookOfPook/status/1167655834429591552 …
There is a trust arc that has to develop organically, but there are also plenty of people who don't know what they want with each other, fear commitment or simply lie about their willingness to commit. If you send these signals, it'll be reflected in the people you attract.