Rich womens’ freedom has always been gained by relying on poor women’s labor. Nannies, wet nurses, maids, cooks. But I take issue with notion that this has anything to do with “whiteness.” This lopsided “feminism” happens everywhere. Not just the US.
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But "treating like family" brings its own problems. Like expectations of unpaid overtime ("but the kids want to see you!") Etc. And not paying into the employee's SS or 401k.
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I dunno, I think family members can be exploitative of both domestic staff *and other family members* — when I say "treat like family," I mean to acknowledge that the relationship can never be *purely* transactional, that there's necessarily a sacred human layer there.
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People speak of the past as if household employees were treated so much worse than today. However, I think this depends very much on the household. Back when people had live in maids, they often felt responsible for taking care of them in their old age.
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I was always treated better by people who saw me as an employee than a family member. The latter category has mixed feelings, guilt, and jealousy about nannies. The former category had made their peace with it and could be professional.
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Nonsense. It's not demeaning to hire people to work for you then treat them like they work for you.
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