Yeaaaaah... I don't think you have to give 4-year-olds lifelong recollections of their own inadequacy in order to have top-notch programmers
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Replying to @spakhm @KevinSimler
Kids have unpleasant emotions all the time. Growing up is super hard, and they'll run into terrible constraints all the time. That's not the problem; the problem is that forcing kids to "learn" runs a high risk of generating aversions that we don't actually know how to correct
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Replying to @spakhm @KevinSimler
I think it's a terrible idea to force a kid to read — ever. Nearly all kids love stories & if read to will eventually demand some control by forcing The Adult to reveal what's going on there. The risk of brute-forcing it is creating a lifelong non-reader. Horrifying.
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I agree with this risk but I think there is some risk with not forcing a kid to learn reading too. There will be some kids that just won’t. I’m dyslexic and went undiagnosed for the first 20 years of my life. I’m still trying to grasp and overcome the effects.
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Replying to @KingofHype @webdevMason and
Think there’s a balance here though. Mason is onto something for sure. Maybe I needed to be forced to learn reading but not forced to read once I did learn. The pressure of reading x amount was fucked for me. Now I’m learning to read what I enjoy even if it’s at a snail’s pace.
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Do you think that if you hadn't been forced, you wouldn't have wanted to keep at something that was hard? Maybe, but kids attempt difficult things over and over all the time, *against* the advice of adults —it's the force that makes failure sting.
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I guess my answer is that I can’t be sure. I do think, to your point, that the forced reading was definitely not helpful. It turned something difficult into something miserable. I’m more likely to overcome difficulty than misery.
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Especially as a kid! I think we forget. Left to themselves, kids put tremendous effort into what they do. They wreck themselves attempting skateboard tricks. They spend hours revising lego structures. This is part of a drawing I did as a teen — where did that patience come from?!pic.twitter.com/mRHhhRXET5
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