A strange thing happened to me the other night. I was on the subway (BART), and a man sat next to me who was Not Okay. If you’ve lived in a big city, you know the type: eyes huge, shouting, flailing. Many of the people in the car were staring us — I think they were scared for me
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I’ve had interactions like that with Not Okay people on BART, and it seems like no matter what someone is going through, they respond relatively well to having their humanity implicitly recognized.
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This seems like kind of a cop out. I didn’t know nor care to know this guy or even just his name, and I don’t feel bad about that. At all. He’s obviously human and that does not really inform whether he’s someone I should fear, feel sorry for, think about, etc.
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There’s a reason people are wary of psychosis...
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I think you’re just wonderful. Good luck making sense of why that is.
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I think you handled it just fine. It really is impossible to say what the “right move” is. You may have reduced your chances of an incident by your reaction to the situation, or as you said maybe there wasn’t a situation to begin with.
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Emotions are contagious, if you panicked or acted frantically, it may have ignited his emotions as well. There is no one-size-fits-all method to handle it and you probably were reading the environment in real time and applying what you felt was the best course of action.
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Just coz the lion ain’t hungry don’t mean he won’t eat ya when he is.
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