A strange thing happened to me the other night. I was on the subway (BART), and a man sat next to me who was Not Okay. If you’ve lived in a big city, you know the type: eyes huge, shouting, flailing. Many of the people in the car were staring us — I think they were scared for me
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A lot of people have told me that I’m good with people, that I read people well, that I have a “high EQ.” I’ve been trying to figure out what that is, and this feels like kind of an important piece, since this was a relatively novel situation for me & I still knew what to do
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And maybe he would’ve let me out without incident regardless of what I’d said. Or maybe I *should* have been much more terrified, and the fact that nothing bad happened was luck of the draw. I don’t know!
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Could it be you intuitively get what was happening with him? What scares me about angry people is the loss of control I feel from not knowing what’s happening in their mind and how to make it stop. Uncertainty is scary, objectively I know violent things rarely happen.
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