I think my dating problem is that I keep seeing people who are also single past 30. Like, clearly we’re both terrible at this
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The divorced guys have a track record of being able to commit. Better that than a guy pushing 40 who’s never had a serious partner.
100%, never-married at 40 seems a much bigger red flag than a divorce. Very open to divorcees & dudes with kids
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I wouldn’t say “never married” is the issue — plenty of men who have never been married have had committed relationships — but rather the guys who have been on one casual fling after another since their early 20s.
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Think it might be a little different when you’re big on kids — people do tend to marry when they’re interested in building a household for tiny humans; long-term cohabitation is a weaker signal for interest on that front
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That's a very irrational thing to say without considering why someone is single at 40 and why some is divorced at 40. This is the sort of way of judgement that makes me resent society.
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The thing about heuristics is that they’re heuristics. I’m not saying I wouldn’t date someone >40 who’d never married; I already have, and I’ve learned from it. Also, frankly, you can fuck off if you think my dating prefs justify any resentment on your part whatsoever
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So the whole "social proof" thing is true? Women are more attracted to men that other women are (were) already attracted to?
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Yeah, we're pretty messed up.
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