I’m not LDS, but I’m super impressed with how Mormons manage a modern, useful, yet deeply visceral Becoming Adult ritual-process. I’m sure mileage varies, but it’s one of those things I have mentally bookmarked under “how to human better(?)”https://twitter.com/Austen/status/1058056317636497408 …
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I suspect there’s actually a lot of room for play w/o theocracy. You see similar duty/achievement patterns in e.g. military families/cultures. I’m not sure what the healthiest version of this is, but I kinda want to make an even better one
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I have literally seen better done in Japanese pre-schools than in the mainline experience of American adults. ("Welcome to the school new 3 year olds. 4 year olds: meet the 3 year olds. From today forth they are your responsibility.")
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That is wonderful, I am *delighted* by that
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The worst coming-of-age ritual in secular culture is the 21st birthday/legal drinking age birthday and I hate that one. Like alcoholism is bad and that type of rite of passage makes it worse.
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Yep! Mistakes are inevitable, but there’s no good reason to glorify them. Ritual celebration of bad decisions is IMO a consequence of poorly-scheduled freedoms; rebellion is only growth if you’re unreasonably constrained
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are you seriously trying to tell me buzzfeed quizzes on your hogwarts house aren’t good enough
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And I thought I could not love you more, Mike
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For a long time I was thinking that I could really go for a kind of Christianity that understands itself as a human product. "Here is an intergenerational meditation on the human condition of our culture. Let's have a go at it."
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With the important benefit that a congregation of likeminded people would really help with the whole "raising children to be adults" stuff.
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It can’t help that day to day life keeps requiring less and less actual human interaction with people outside our social and socio-economic circles
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