Visa   NYC!   (Apr23-May12)

@visakanv

take a deep breath through your nose, and hold it for a few seconds. repeat as much as you’d like. 🧘🏾‍♂️

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    Greetings, friend! 👋🏾 Here is a non-exhaustive list of some of my best threads on twitter dot com. Feel free to reply to any tweet in any thread, however old. 🤓 (Looking for a thread and can't find it? Ask me about it, and I'll add it here!)

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  2. This has also got me curious about connecting some dots re Japanese vocabulary: Setsu: "section, period, verse, melody" Setsubun: "seasonal division" Setsuna: "a moment; an instant". Origin from Sanskrit "ksana" Densetsu – Legend... is it like "legendary period"? or unrelated

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  3. I have never regretted setting my trending location to Tokyo. What a perfect little experience Turns out this is about Setsubun, the Spring festival. You're supposed to throw soybeans to ward off evil spirits

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  4. some thoughtful replies have helped me clarify my thoughts I don't mean "health scare don't care lol" I mean "sure it's an issue but all you can really do is be little more rigorous about hygiene, there's no sense panicking. wash your hands and carry on (until further notice)"

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  5. our patient and long-suffering wives and will likely also be hanging out with us; I bet the two of them would make for a much more interesting vlog or podcast than me + tiago

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  7. gonna meet tomorrow! what should we talk about

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  9. "the way forward is to make small changes then look for reciprocity" ohhhh so this is how trust works. You try things with very small stakes and then escalate if it goes well 🤔🤔🤔 obvious in retrospect, but no one told me this before?? I thought I was supposed to just trust

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  12. great grandpa’s chinese egg monopoly tweet

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  13. have written a lot about relationships at this point. I share this with newlywed/engaged friends. You have to talk to each other about the hard and painful stuff. don’t hold your whole lives hostage because you’re too scared to talk about your feelings

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  14. A bit of a high-voltage move but I do recommend sharing a bottle of wine with your spouse and listening to Amanda Palmer’s The Bed Song

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  15. Ok so I can’t say anything about kids since we don’t have them, but “built up resentment that no one talks about” is basically the root of the rest of the problem IMO. You have to talk about it, address and fix it, and then that corrects everything else downstream, even sex

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  17. Me, 1230pm: mm coffee : what is the nature of desire? me: why NOW visabrain: this is the whole point of a freelance life right, the freedom me: I guess... visabrain: where did our desire for that come from? me: can we shelve this for later, we have overdue tasks,,

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  19. A funny thing about getting good at managing your urges (to be cruel, vindictive, etc, for eg) is that people start to assume you don’t have those urges at all

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  20. I suppose it’s all sort of intersubjective, part of why I’m not worried is that I trust the people around me to be obsessive and neurotically hyper-vigilant, which they are. They always have been

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  21. This might sound irresponsible but I’m not yet convinced that the coronavirus is a big deal For context I live in Singapore, a tiny island that as of now has 18 cases When I was a teenager in 2003, we had SARS, where 33 people died RIP to those people, but 33 people is a blip

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