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There’s no winning here

There’s a *lot* to win here, just not what you had in mind

Oh you can read minds now?

Usually no, but-

You’re cheating then

I reject the frame that we’re playing a finite game with a fixed set of rules. “Cheating” is entirely acceptable in my frame, even encouraged

So you win the game at the expense of the relationship?

I’m not playing to win, I’m playing to keep playing