To map out the boundary of your personal void, identify 3 death thresholds, where a mis-step could kill you in one of 3 senses:
1. Social death
2. Material/physical death
3. Agency/prowess death
They'll each be marked by a set of relationships to people+information
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Hm. Actually, people always are, on average, one muscle twitch away from 2 and 3, while 1 takes a bit more effort. Not much of a threshold.

