does anyone else have the experience where 99% of participants in a conversation seem extremely ideologically pwned to you, what is it that i'm detecting here
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I find debate to be almost entirely useless except between people who already trust each other extremely deeply. It’s a deep-ingroup mode. Dialogue can build trust if there is genuine intent to do so, otherwise it’s just manipulation.
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Good dialogue happens when side decides to use dialogue rules unilaterally with unbounded patience, but no referee and no expectation of reciprocity
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I still crave more conversational contexts where both sides do that with maximum earnestness. Still one of Silicon Valley’s secret sauces.
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Debating in an atemporal backdrop makes it even more silly and frustrating... 😡
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