Not seeing the faults of your friends seems to be part of reciprocal altruism programming
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Replying to @vgr
You still see their faults; you accept or love the faults.
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Replying to @bhudgeons
That's the saintly minority. Most just go into denial and turn on others who point out flaws.
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Replying to @vgr
Eh. If they’re *really* friends, their faults will be too much to ignore. You mean, “people you wish you liked.”
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Replying to @bhudgeons @vgr
This might be a semantic argument about the definition of “friend.”
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Replying to @bhudgeons
I have specific examples in mind where they are clearly real friends, and one refuses to believe or even hear negative things about the other, turning around and attacking the accuser of lying etc
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Replying to @vgr
Do you think they believe it? Or feel the duty to defend?
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I think they subconsciously avoid encountering undeniable evidence so they know at an unconscious level at least
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Replying to @vgr
Yeah. I wonder if deepening friendships helps you see their flaws more clearly, since your personal identity isn’t tied to their flawlessness.
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