We're entering Vietnam of gender wars. Men will continue losing while biological-determinism ideology limits our ability to reimagine relationships with women in win-win ways that cedes *relative* political agency to bank absolute gains for all, without seeing it as emasculation.
Sure, work would humanize them. I'm all for creating opportunity for them that's better than video games. But that problem is not a gender problem. It's an automation and tech evolution and cost-of-education problem.