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We're entering Vietnam of gender wars. Men will continue losing while biological-determinism ideology limits our ability to reimagine relationships with women in win-win ways that cedes *relative* political agency to bank absolute gains for all, without seeing it as emasculation.
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You got to choose a military life. I got to choose not to join that life. 100 years ago, both of us would have likely been subject to conscription. And yes, even accounting for men being disproportionately the instruments of violence, we've still gotten a better deal overall.