Thought: a pretty decent test of character is the _variety_ in the friends you collect, above some threshold of _mutual_ loyalty.
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Think of top 10 non-family people in your life with highest mutual trust w you. If they're all very alike, I probably won't be trusting you
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What if there is variety along one axis but not along another? My friends vary a lot in profession, not so much in their politics.



