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Curiously, growth identity seems to form around how lucky you've been. Not your deserved/earned successes but lucky premium beyond that.
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Some part has to be earned (pure lottery wins/inheritances don't seed identity) but luck above effort feels like proof of chosen-one status
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I think that's irrelevant. Reference is what you think you deserved, not what you think you could have negotiated.