"update your beliefs" makes it sound like there's a spreadsheet in your skull and you go in and change a value, no big deal
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actually finding out you were deceived or wrong has major emotional costs - a sense of betrayal, shame, the beckoning horror of chaos
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Depends on how you were wrong? Best: wrong about banal fact with low identity coupling. Worst case, your nemesis was right.

