Your behaviors in close relationships makes your blindspots visible even to casual observers. Run them in 1:1 sandboxes as much as possible
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That's a very Sun Tzu way of putting it. Maybe better to say it makes it visible to yourself, thus reflect on them?
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but usually to see them you need to ask one trusted friend to comment on another
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Or, you need to have more close relationships to increase the sample size.
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