Your behaviors in close relationships makes your blindspots visible even to casual observers. Run them in 1:1 sandboxes as much as possible
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That's a very Sun Tzu way of putting it. Maybe better to say it makes it visible to yourself, thus reflect on them?
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only the shallow ones. Big ones come out in relationships and are less visible to you and other party than to third parties.
I'm talking about *different* blindspots. There are blindspots that don't manifest except in close relationships.
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Or make certain the casual observers are close friends... Everyone needs a debugger.

