I suspect everybody partitions friends into 2 subsets: comrades in virtue, comrades in vice. Based on which side of yourself you show them.
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yeah def- I think that's why there's a 2x2 here. I was just objecting to the mapping virtue/vice -> pretend/real
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@The_Lagrangian it's a common degenerate map, as is the reverse for "rebels"... mask and face both showing virtue+vice=rare
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prob large reason romantic relationships fail- attraction based on one, but need both to survive
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privileging vice as "who I am" is side effect of trying to pretend virtue mask is who you are
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my best friends are both, but I only have like two of those
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