1/ Most people can _only_ learn social behaviors by imitating role models. Social systems are in fact built around this learning behavior.
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2/ Social systems often frame learning-by-imitation as not learning at all, such as "imitation is the best form of flattery" or "respect"
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3/ Awkwardness of a big chunk (say 30%) of any group being in learning mode at any given time is aestheticized away, making it seem perfect.
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5/ All social learning involves a high failure rate. Social learning failure not based on imitation incurs extra shaming, embarrassment
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6/ Failure rate for non-imitative learning is higher, since it has undergone less testing. So more frequent failure with less face-saving.
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