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1/ Most people can _only_ learn social behaviors by imitating role models. Social systems are in fact built around this learning behavior.
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3/ Awkwardness of a big chunk (say 30%) of any group being in learning mode at any given time is aestheticized away, making it seem perfect.
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4/ A minority of people figure out social behaviors by other means: analysis, experiment, observation. Their learning seems inept, gauche.
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