Sad but true: There are people who serve as anti-referrals for me. If they refer or recommend someone, I auto-devalue that person.
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frankly, probably incredibly valuable to have that. If maybe disheartening.
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You just have to be gentle and keep up their delusion that they're being helpful in a positive way if you do that.
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its related to the friend vs trust dichotomy; I can trust your skill at your job, but not your skill at evaluating people
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