4 dev factors explain 90% of adult life: health (0-5), parenting (5-12), who includes/excludes you (12-18), how you're pigeonholed (22-30),
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from 18+ we are "pigeonholing/defining" ourselves.
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only a tiny minority. The rest are put in nested set of boxes by default they have to break out of or accept.
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maybe but by ignoring college you're ignoring the autonomy it brings (we "choose" majors / careers etc)
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Fine, extend 18 boundary to 22. It's still approximately a peer exclusion/inclusion stage.

