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6/ Self-esteem is actually a very ill-posed construct that only belongs in highly credentialist organizations, an internalized superego
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7/ There is no such thing. All esteem is other-esteem. Healthier to recognize that primary source rather than program a proxy into your head
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8/ Robinson Crusoe on an island cannot have "self esteem" issues. He only has two standards: survival in external world, enjoyment in head
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9/ Aiming for high self-esteem is like fat supply chains. You insure against uncertainty in other-esteem through internal inventory.
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10/ Like fat supply chains, self-esteem an artifact of industrial age. Go lean instead. Zero inventory. NO self-esteem per 3/ and 4/
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11/ This means externalizing your self-esteem as other-esteem into quality relationships, not insuring against validation volatility
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13/ Industrial age humans needed self-esteem because their attachment to clumsy bureaucratic parents was insecure, like kids of bad parents
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14/ You can do better now, since you can choose relationships much more freely. Your attachment to society can be a lot more secure today.
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