Party people have been gaslighting us about how much partying is going on, and should be going on
I bet it would have been way more skewed if I’d eliminated college age
Only a minority likes regular partying
Not counting meetups, I haven’t been to a proper party since 2013. Blog-adjacent meetups are halfway between social and conference-like things (tell: partners usually don’t come unless they’re part of the scene too). I last hosted a larger meetup (~7 people) in 2017.