They are sincerely concerned about all the right things in the right order and proportions, call their congresspeople about stuff, are good parents, have boring, borderline useful hobbies nobody could object to, tweet useful PSAs, and have solid careers. They volunteer, donate…
Know this very well. Most are in survival mode and were never taught the habit of self-indulgences like overexplaining every thought as if it were a museum piece. That kinda thing isn’t necessarily wrong. Just a lot of words/energy for a niche thing in a small élite population.