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The only book I know of on the topic is The Power of Two from 2009 but it’s kinda pedestrian and doesn’t get at what I’m gesturing at… a sort of “only a paradox can eat a paradox” phenomenon Law of requisite paradoxicality
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I mostly work with solo execs but in recent years working with pairs has become more common. It’s tricky but not in a couples counseling way. More like trying to act as an active stabilizing element by sparring with both, individually and together. It’s 4x as hard as a 1:1.
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An interesting part of the challenge is respecting the 1:1 confidences but also letting the 3 1:1 relationship data inform the three-way chats, and getting them to work better together while resisting being drawn into referee/couples-counselor mode.
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3 is too much I think. Though siblings (eg Warner brothers) sometimes seem to pull it off. You’re going to get an idiosyncratic pattern of divided responsibilities
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any hunch against troika, or pair and troika similar reasoning? (troika w/o a forced 3-way responsibility split)
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I think the checklist from the Power of 2 book is kinda bad. It doesn’t matter if you get score A+ on those 8 “relationship house-keeping” things if the core creative tension is weak sauce. Otoh if the core tension is electric, a lot of those 8 things can be C’s and D’s
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Yeah this one’s also on my list to read. If I ever write a book about this, just to be annoying I’ll call it “Original Famous Power of Two”
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There's another book, also calles Powers of Two, that's focused on anecdotes from great pairings -- including Lennon/McCartney. It's one of those books that's been echoing through my head since I read it Powers Of Two: How Relationships Drive Creativity a.co/d/ebhx9of
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