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In the bureaucratic language-power games, the linguistic “innovation” is consequential for forms and in databases. Which is actually kinda endgame-logical. In the distant future when men and robots can have wombs, “womb” should be a field rather than default entailment of “woman”
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But in most contemporary social contexts, eg tweeting about history (as opposed to performing surgery for uterine cancer or deciphering what ‘would you like to come up for coffee’ means in undeclared-plumbing terms on a date), using dehumanizing construct language is idiotic
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Assumed efficient defaults cannot automatically be treated as oppression by either majority or minority. Just because some burgers are veggie doesn’t mean using unqualified ‘burger’ to refer to a meat patties is oppression of vegetarians. I’m fine specifying.
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The original pronoun wars are a good illustration. I’m happy to use non-assumed-default pronouns for you, or ask if in doubt. I’m not going to declare mine on my profile, but don’t have an opinion on if others should. If you make a mistake in addressing me, I won’t take offense.
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Intent to treat others humanely is a matter of adult judgment not compliance with rules. We’re all minorities in some ways, and enjoy some majority/default privileges in other ways. Some enjoy more defaultness and some are perhaps burdened with more non-defaultness than most…
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But defaults are neither good nor bad. They are inevitable emergent efficiencies of convention and behavior that leverage the statistical patterns around us.
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And remember that plenty of non-defaultness (eg illness) is invisible. Whether visibility helps or hurts in a particular non-default lived experience is a case-by-case thing. I’m glad my appearance signals my ethnicity, but not my financial situation.
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If you spend 10 minutes learning about these culture wars, you realize it’s almost entirely about grabbing institutional power while pretending to empower much larger groups the power-grabbers don’t actually have the consent to represent.
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But you can’t run around withdrawing consent from every representation battle you’re represented in. Eg. most vegetarians/vegans don’t speak for me. Most Indians don’t speak for me. But I’m not going to go around playing misrepresentation-whack-a-mole. That’s intractable.
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But I can reject attempts to police how I represent myself. And I can reject people who claim to speak for larger groups when I see no proof of broad consent. I can speak for myself, and directly to inferred groups I’m not in. In both cases there’s risk in rejecting power claims.
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I’ve stayed out of posting a take on this particular battle within the culture war but have been tracking it for years. In a few DM convos, it is the main topic of conversation. I have a few trans friends and it’s clear to me that the language power-trip types don’t speak for all
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It’s also clear that this is *the* strategic battle on which the culture war will turn. And the power-tripping construct essentialists trying to gain control over specific school boards and HR departments are either oblivious to the cost to the larger war, or indifferent to it.
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The price of a few petty power-seekers doing this is externalities that just hand the initiative to the worst of illiberal reactionaries, and driving casual observers straight into their arms. Exhibit A is the weaponization of “CRT” by Rufo. A fine own-goal assist by the left
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You know what might work? Turn his name into a verb for this kind of bad faith discourse. "This is not CRT, it is Rufology" or "This conversation has obviously been chrisrufoid" and if somebody asks, you have an opening to explain
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