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Emerging-adulthood vortex: Any scene that emerges around anything that allows people 21-35 or so to make their bones in the world…it attracts activity and killer-instinct commitment with a do-or-die level nihilistic desperation, usually with an attached dating/hookup scene 🤔
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When I was in the vulnerable age band, I expended real effort avoiding getting sucked in. Not sure why, but entirely wrong black-hole energy for me. Now that I’m very safely out of the age band I can see how these vortices work more clearly… and am extremely glad I avoided them
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Can you please share what was the EAV during your time? I'm 30, so it will be greatly helpful to be able to evaluate the same for me. So far, I've been running away from any kind of "social validation" since 23.. not sure if I have articulated that as nicely.. still working :)
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Thanks.. This is an important thread, although not as elaborate as your other ones. But still extremely grateful as always :) Can you also expand some day on why you're grateful to have avoided it? And if you think someone can escape from EAV with awareness of certain things..