Suddenly realizing I’ve never explicitly thought the thought “how can I be helpful to others?”
I mean I try to help if asked or if someone obviously needs help, but it’s all reactive. The proactive thought just never occurs to me.
Not counting “how can I help” ritual exchanges
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So some of you naturally go around thinking this thought? Like it’s not taught by your religion or something?
Impressed.
In hindsight this explains why kids always seem confused by interactions with me. I think they expect all adults to be proactively helpful.
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gonna try and follow the 3 laws of robotics for a day as an experiment in proactive helpfulness
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On the flip side I’m always surprised when someone steps up to help me without being asked
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Funny how some responses seem to take it for granted that I aspire to greater helpfulness
Your faith in me is touching but I’m merely observing, not aspiring to do better
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I suspect I inherited this from my mother. It’s something I’ve always done and when I became aware generally didn’t feel the need to pull back. More design life around this need. Why I set up open curiosity conversations with anyone in 2016
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Every day...but just having the thought doesn't necessarily translate into more effective action
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I had a friend that said she'd memorize all her roommates schedules and preferences so she could anticipate how to be least disruptive and find ways to be helpful, etc. There's all extremes
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