This actually kinda works out for me exactly this way 🤔
The trick is to really camp it up
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If anything, the people who have concluded I'm an asshole have mostly met me in person
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I'm not very entertaining or an exaggerated caricature in person. Very wysiwyg. If you don't like me in person, then there is no deeper "real me" that you might like
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Yeah…being snarky, even having a dark sense of humour, is fine. Being snide, mean, or edgy—no. I guess the difference is whether it feels like commiserating about something or attacking someone?
For all my self-questioning, there’s no doubt in my mind that people know I’m kind.


