In the worst case it’s grooming into radicalism. You don’t need to even actively encourage it. Just not discourage it. If it’s a youthful tendency that would otherwise provoke pushback, mere lack is encouragement.
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Something deeply disingenuous and yucky about this passive-aggressive grooming. I much prefer open persuasion/evangelism or even undisguised (but non-coercive) paternalism. This conjuring trick of “you’re an adult (choose this path where I’m avoiding challenging you)” is yucky.
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Exactly, in the sexual predation sense. It’s a pretty strong charge to level so I’m reluctant to use the word in an unqualified way. But that’s the rhyme.https://twitter.com/willyintheworld/status/1284947702447517696?s=21 …
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Basically, if you’re 35 plus, do not encourage in much younger people, tendencies/dispositions you yourself acquired over a long period, with adequate checks and balances from counter-tendencies. It’s somewhere between irresponsible and malicious.
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It’s like teaching takeoffs while withholding the knowledge that landings are far harder to master. You’re setting your padawan up for a crash landing, not shortening their learning curves.
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Everybody defaults into de facto teacherhood simply by virtue of growing older. Younger people will take cues from you even if you don’t craft them. But you have a responsibility to avoid modeling lessons your life doesn’t actually stand for or validate. Primum non boxers.
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It is fine to abdicate this responsibility consciously (not hard, just say “don’t take your cues from me, your circumstances aren’t the same”) but if you don’t, you’re more responsible for what others pick up from you than you might think.
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Heh people should write anti-biographies. “Lessons not to draw from my life or things I say and do because of invisible special circumstances, luck, and hidden incentives shaping how I appear to you”
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Intellectual grooming?
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