Stress/relaxation determines how insecure/secure you feel and how big a scarcity/surplus you see in resources
That sets a ceiling on how much empathy you are capable of feeling and expressing. Which partly determines how much aggression/harmony you provoke. Which drives stress.
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I’ve known about this vicious cycle for a long time but so far have found no way to crack it open. The best you can do is direct 100W healing rays at stressed-mean people until they feel more secure, but that’s as likely to switch them into contemptuous-mean as nice.
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Plus 100W healing rays drain your own battery very quickly. At the rate of 1 spoon/minute. And then you have to retreat or you become mean yourself.
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