had a conversation with my wife about some of my meta-commentary and posting, and I was kinda surprised to find that even she, who knows me much better than almost everyone else, including me in some aspects, didn't entirely appreciate/understand why I do what I do
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Has this strategy made you friends in Singapore (that you see on a regular basis)? I've found that my partner struggles to understand how much I care about and maintain friendships with people I met online or rarely see. He just has a different conception of what friendship is.
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I don’t really see anybody regularly other than my wife 😂 I did meet my ex-boss this way and I meet him ~periodically~ + cherish our relationship. I feel like there are other people I’ve gotten to know that way but it’s all kinda mixed up in my head
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🤣 I'm so sorry, now I'm imagining this is how your conversation went:
Wife (going out for dinner with friends): You sure you don't want to come?
Visa (hunched over computer in dark room): I TOLD you I'm making friends online over 70 years!
Wife: ...okay honey
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My wife is actually more of a recluse than I am 😂 I worry that if I didn’t drag *her* out socializing, she might become a tree
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