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What is the most trivial event that would drain your resilience and make you go “life sucks and universe hates me”? And how would you objectively rate it on a scale of 1-100 where 1 is a paper cut and 100 is say an aggressive terminal cancer diagnosis? Eg: “lost phone, 15/100”
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The scheme seems to be confusing people. The subjective scale is binary, how it feels: from ok to life-is-hell. The objective scale is your assessment of badness in the range of things that could happen. If the answer to “can this get worse” is “yes” you’re not yet at 100.
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Spoon theory people are in a state where say the 10th event is the hell-switch event no matter what the sequence of 10 events is. Fixed price psyche economy.
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