Let’s play a game. No idea whether I’ll be good at this.
Tell me age, marital status, and what you TYPICALLY do during these 3 times and I’ll try to guess what you’re unconsciously solving for, and you tell me if I‘m right:
Weekdays 10-2
Mon-Thu PM after dinner
Sat morning
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married, nearly 40
1. reading/writing/eating lunch/running errands with wife
2. watching tv with wife
3. playing videogames
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Your wife is solving for both your lives and you’re happy to go along that and play the role she’s cast you in
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not quite. she’s solving for a way to feel fulfilled outside of the growth/productivity mindset, but is a fine artist and so always working in some way. i follow her lead but got my own thing going (studying MA in literature and culture, to help understand+write about videogames)
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