Overloading John Gottman’s healthy-marriage heuristic, try to ensure that 4 out of 5 interactions with anyone are neither about confirmation or disconfirmation, but about mutual knowledge growth. That’s how you invest in pluralism.
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Learning from people disagreeing with you is overrated. Most of my learning from others actually comes from them thinking thoughts I wouldn’t be likely to think at all. And most tend to neither confirm or disconfirm anything I already think, but expand the scope of thoughts.
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