Dealing with people for whom being respected/disrespected is a big deal feels really awkward, like writing with my left hand. I have to kinda model them in some sort of janky emulation mode. I can detect respect/disrespect but don’t have a strong response to it. 🤔
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I don’t care about traditional respect/disrespect the way a boomer might treat it as some deep interpersonal thing—but I do hate people disrespecting the value of my time. I feel like that’s a generational thing, but haven’t quite been able to put my finger on it.
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With cellphone coverage I usually don’t care about that... can keep myself busy anywhere, anytime
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It’s more about valuing your time and effort over mine. Think someone who takes shortcuts that you _think_ are the easier/right way to do something, but then they fuck it up and you have to come in and fix it—your real productivity goes down, while their perceived goes up.
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